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 "Take care of Women" This phrase was repeated three times by Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) in his last days. But today's "While not all men commit crimes like murder and rape, statistics show that men are often the perpetrators in these cases." It's disheartening that many women are often objectified by men, who seem to view them as mere objects rather than individuals with dignity. These men might not respect the women in their own lives, gazing at other women with a predatory attitude, making them feel uncomfortable and unsafe. "Men are the ones who are given strength by Allah SWT to protect Women. So, if you hurt a women, you are not a man. Prophet Muhammad(PBH) never hurt His wives or any women at all.It's written somewhere that "MAN IS THE CROWN OF THE UNIVERSE BUT IT IS THE WOMAN WHO ADORNS THIS CROWN WITH HER CHARMS."Men often remember the crown but forget the charms of women." Treating your women with kindness isn’t optional in Islam, it’s a reflection of your faith. Yet in this generation many disrespect their women and then Ask: “Why is there no peace in my heart?” “Why is my Rizk blocked?” “Why is there no Barkath in my life?” Because barkah dosen’t  where hearts are broken. Prophet Muhammad(PBH) said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” In our society, every crime and every injustice ultimately falls upon a woman’s head. If someone’s son runs away from home, people talk about it as casually as if he’s just gone out to buy some yoghurt and will be back shortly. But if someone’s daughter doesn’t return home for a few hours, the family is instantly condemned, as if they deserve to be hung without a moment’s delay. In the age of ignorance, when a daughter was born, she was buried alive. We survive so that daughters can still be buried every day — only the method has changed. "I've often heard people say that an educated woman argues a lot. But what kind of arguments are these—about what's right or wrong? She understands justice and rights, which is why she doesn't behave like a submissive lamb. Our society prefers a version of womanhood that is rooted in obedience." "The problem with our society is that those who engage in illicit relations roam freely, while those who choose marriage are killed. Love has been turned into a crime, and marriage has become a punishment. Ignorance is alive, and religious law has been sidelined. History bears witness that whenever the conversation turns to women's rights, that's precisely when men suddenly remember their honour." "My heart longs to write a book, with a daughter as its theme. I want to write about her patience, her pain, her silent sobs, her quiet care. I want to write of the limits of her endurance, and the blind atmosphere of cruelty that surrounds her." "Thank goodness we girls aren’t permitted to kill in the name of honour—otherwise, every street, every alley, every third house would be sending out the funeral of a man. Well, men aren’t permitted either, but they still kill—sometimes with words, and sometimes with their hands." "Are women more courageous than men? Men may run states, but women run households—and if a household is managed with wisdom and strength, then it is from these very homes that those who lead nations emerge."A man says that a woman cannot protect a man — but he forgets the very foundation: she protects him for nine months before he even enters the world.Often, parents tell their daughters to fulfil all their wishes after marriage, in their husband's home. But I wish to say—please try to fulfil their little dreams yourselves. Because more often than not, outsiders neither take full responsibility nor care about those dreams the way you do.

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