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How to Overcome Common Fears

How to Overcome Common Fears

Step 1: Understand What Fear Is
Fear is a natural response that helps you stay safe.
It’s your brain’s way of keeping you away from danger. But sometimes, fear isn’t about real danger—it’s about things like being judged, not doing well, or not knowing what will happen.

Common fears people have are:
- Fear of failing
- Fear of being rejected
- Fear of speaking in public
- Fear of change
- Fear of being judged
- Fear of things like heights, spiders, or small spaces (these are called phobias)
Step 2: Know What You’re Afraid Of
Understanding your fear is the first step to dealing with it.
Ask yourself:
- What is it exactly that I’m scared of?
- When did I first start feeling this way?
- What makes me feel this fear?
- How does it affect what I do or decide?
Writing it down can help you think about it more clearly and make it feel less scary.
Step 3: Use Ways That Work to Beat Fear
1.Start Small and Move Forward
Face your fear bit by bit.
For example, if you fear public speaking, you can begin by talking in front of a mirror, then to a friend, then to a small group.
2.Change the Way You Think
If you think something is bad, try to think about it differently.
- Instead of thinking, “I’ll mess up,” say, “I’m learning and getting better.”
- Ask yourself, “What’s the worst that can happen, and can I handle it?”
3.Imagine Yourself Succeeding
Picture yourself doing the thing you’re afraid of and doing it well.
This can help you feel more confident and prepare your brain for success.
4.Use Breathing and Mindfulness
Fear can make your heart race and your breath shallow.
Try box breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4.
Repeat.
5.Share Your Fear
Talk to someone you trust, like a friend, a therapist, or a group.
Talking about fear can make it feel smaller.
6.Set Small Goals
Break your fear into small steps.
Celebrate each small success to keep going.
Bonus Tips:
- Keep a journal about your fear to watch how it changes over time.
- Reward yourself for trying things that scare you.
- Learn from others—read about people who have overcome similar fears.
- Be kind to yourself—fear is normal.
It doesn’t mean you’re weak.
Quote to Remember:
“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.”

— George Addair  

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